
What to expect when
All children develop at their own pace, yet there are some key skills that we expect them to develop at certain ages within neurotypical development.
Our handy guide to communication milestones outlines some of these important skills. You'll also find links to activity ideas that will help your child develop in these areas.
Gaze at faces and copy some facial movements from an adult e.g. sticking out tongue or opening mouth
Turn to main carer’s voice across the room
Play by exploring objects - putting them in my mouth, hitting and shaking them
Use different cries to express different needs
Make cooing, gurgling, laughing and squealing sounds in response to someone else e.g. when spoken to or played with
Make sounds to get someone’s attention
Activities to support your child's development at 0-6 months
Respond to my name by looking
Watch a toy being hidden then look for it
Recognise what objects can be used for and show this by my actions e.g. brushing my hair with a hairbrush/ putting toothbrush in mouth
Give an object to an adult when asked (although I might take it straight back)
Hold up and show objects to other people
React with smiles and movements to familiar games such as peek-a-boo, pat-a-cake and favourite songs
Recognise the names of family members e.g. look to Mummy when someone says “where’s mummy?”
Wave my hands or put my arms up when I hear ‘bye bye’ or ‘up’
Show understanding of a few everyday words and simple commands like ‘no’, ‘clap hands’ ‘where’s your shoes?’
Shake my head to tell someone ‘no’
Reach towards things of interest or to show I want something
Babble tunefully and make sounds deliberately to communicate with other people
Copy playful voice sounds e.g. blowing raspberries or kisses
Activities to support your child's development at 6-12 months
Look when an adult points
Put related objects together when playing e.g. put a spoon in a cup or put trains on a track
Copy pretend actions from an adult e.g. feeding a teddy
Point to show someone something interesting
Use familiar gestures such as clapping, blowing a kiss, thumbs up, high five
Understand a number of different words including parts of the body, clothes, objects around the house and simple pictures in books
Follow simple instructions e.g. ‘give me the cup’
Tell someone I want something by urgently pointing, reaching and making sounds
Copy symbolic sounds such as vehicle and animal sounds during play
Copy an adult to say familiar words and to join in with parts of favourite nursery rhymes
Use some first words of my own
Activities to support your child's development at 12-24 months
Pay attention to activities I enjoy but may need to ignore everything else to concentrate
Enjoy pretending in play e.g. give dolly a bath or pretend to feed dinosaurs
Seem to understand more and learn new words each week
Understand a few action words (verbs) such as ‘sit down’, ‘clap’, ‘jump’, ‘sleep’
Understand simple instructions and questions e.g. ‘get your shoes’ ‘who’s that?
Name a range of familiar things and like to copy new words. Words may not be fully clear yet.
Use my own name to talk about myself
Put two words together to say simple phrases e.g. ‘more bubbles’ ‘Daddy gone'
Listen eagerly to stories and request favourites over and over
Use imagination in play e.g. have a tea party with toys or pretend a cardboard box is a car
Understand use of objects e.g. ‘show me what you can ride’ – ‘a bike’
Understand describing words e.g. big, little, wet, dirty
Understand position words ‘in’ ‘on’ and ‘under’ e.g. ‘put teddy under the table’
Answer ‘what, where, who’ questions
Use 4-5 words or longer in a sentence when talking
Use different types of words including objects, actions and describing words
Ask questions e.g. ‘What’s that?’ ‘Where’s teddy?’ ‘Who’s that?’
Make errors with pronouncing the sounds in words but parents can usually understand
Concentrate on activities I enjoy but can stop what I am doing to listen
Play make-believe games with other children
Understand complex instructions e.g. put the big spoon under the table
Understand negatives e.g. no, not
Understand questions about the past, present and future e.g. ‘what happened yesterday?’
Answer simple ‘how?’ and ‘why?’ questions
Use longer sentences of 5-8 words and link sentences together with words like ‘and’ and ‘because’
Talk about categories of words e.g. apples and pears are ‘fruit’, pigs and sheep are ‘farm animals’
Talk about an activity or event e.g. how to make a sandwich or what I’ve done at school today
Play cooperatively with other children following games with simple rules.
Focus on an activity for longer without needing reminders
Hold simple conversations, listening and responding appropriately
Use pronouns e.g. I, he, she, we, they
Understand concepts of time, sequence and quantity e.g. first, last, before, after, whole, half
Retell a short familiar story when looking at the pictures
Use descriptive words (adjectives) to describe people and objects e.g. shiny, loud, slowly
Understand emotion words such as happy, excited, scared.
Tell you what words mean e.g. a mouse is a small furry animal.
Use plurals e.g. tooth-teeth, man-men
Use accurate endings on words to show past, present and future e.g. ‘played, playing, will play’
Understand and enjoy riddles and simple jokes
Pronounce most sounds clearly, except for possible errors with ‘r’ ‘th’ and complex words
